I've mentioned a time or two {or a million} just how much I love
Flylady.
Perfectionism: A Little Background
I didn't know I was a perfectionist until I "met" Flylady. I wouldn't do anything around the house until I could do it perfectly. Oh how I didn't like my husband when he would make my clean and shiny floors dirty.
Now, mind you, HE is the one who kept the house picked up all.the.time. I was the one who would spend HOURS making it shiny. But it was still a mess because I didn't pick up all.the.time like he did.
Routines
Thankfully I found
Flylady and realized that my husband was onto something! For the past month I've let my routines slide. I've been working on automating my
Clothe-A-Kid project, updating my blog, enjoying having my husband home more, etc. etc. etc.
My husband mentioned the other day that
our son does better if he has routines. Little light bulb moment for me...so do I!!! So I spent a few hours (dang perfectionism) creating fun worksheets for my routines. Monday was a holiday and messed me up, Tuesday my husband got off work early and messed me up, Wednesday the kids and I volunteered at the food pantry and messed me up, Thursday I had a CAK project meeting and messed me up.
See all those "messed me ups?" That's stinkin' thinkin' as Flylady would say! Would I rather do my routines or hang out with my husband? Would I rather volunteer at the food pantry (with my kids!) or do my routines, etc. etc.
Here's the love/hate part about routines:
My routines show me how much time I have left in my day for other things.
Having a decently clean/"company ready" home is important to me...but that doesn't take much time once I have the clutter under control and really basic routines in place. After I'm done with an item on my to do list I draw a smiley face. I put a dash through it if I didn't do it or don't need to do it (ie. it rained so I don't need to water the lawn.)
For now, if I have more smiley faces than dashes, my routines are working. Baby steps will get me there. Because I *really* don't want to miss out on puddle jumping (even if I'm only taking pictures):
This post has been linked to Works for Me Wednesday.